Magic is all around us. Kids are exceptionally talented at harnessing magical energy, and they typically do not even realize it.
If you are a practicing Wiccan, it is never too early to bring your children into the religion. You can start teaching Wicca to them at a young age and introducing Wiccan ideas into their everyday life.
One of the easiest ways to engage your children in this religious practice is through casting magic spells. Spellcasting is a beautiful way to support their imagination and encourage creativity.
Introducing your children to Wicca and magic is something that you can do gradually. You can make it a natural part of their lives and guide them to find their way in the Wiccan tradition.
By using magic spells tailored to kids, you can help them to understand the power behind magic and enable them to discover their abilities. You can shape how they interact with spellcasting and Wicca for the rest of their lives through a proper introduction to the craft.
Introducing Your Kids to Wicca
As you begin to introduce your kids to Wicca and get them into casting spells, you want to start from a place of knowledge. It can help to refresh yourself on the basics of the religion.
To begin with, if you are not aware already, then you should know Wicca is a recognized religion. It receives the same considerations under the law as any other religion.
The key ideas of Wicca are to respect nature and life. The craft is deeply rooted in honoring the universe and treating every living thing with respect and love. It is about choosing peace.
At the heart of Wicca is the desire to be tolerant, accepting, and loving. Wiccans accept everyone and look for the good in everything. It is a very positive religion.
Some Important Points About Diversity
When teaching your children about Wicca, you need to stress that it is a personal religion and that everyone can practice it however he or she wants as long as they follow the basic rules of the faith. You should explain that some people practice on their own while others may attend a Wiccan church or coven.
The divine power in Wicca is the universe. However, every practitioner may have their god or goddess they worship. Some Wiccans focus on nature, while others may use specific gods and goddesses from history.
You want to make sure your children know and understand that being Wiccan can mean different things to different people. You want them to learn to accept everyone’s definition of Wicca.
Main Concepts
Wicca has a heavy feminine influence, but you want to assure your children that it is open to anyone regardless of gender. While they will hear a lot about female power, you don’t want to discourage your male child. Let him know that everyone has the power within them regardless of gender.
At its core, Wicca is about tapping into your personal energy or power to help promote positivity in the world around you. You want to make it clear to your children that everything they do, especially when doing magic spells, must remain positive.
You want to teach them the two main rules of the craft. The first is not to harm anyone else. Explain that this means they should never cast a harmful spell or a spell that might hurt someone else.
The second rule is the law of three. Teach your children that whatever they put out into the universe will come back to them times three. You need to be sure they understand this law of attraction and how doing harm will bring negativity into their lives in a much stronger way than they put out.
In addition to the two main rules of this religion, you also want to instill in them the importance of living in harmony with nature. Help them to recognize that every living thing has an energy that they can harness for their use as they cast spells.
A Note About the Book of Shadows
At this point in your teachings with your children, you can bring out your Book of Shadows. Explain that this is your personal book, and they can each create their own. Tell them about how it serves as a journal to record thoughts, observations, spells, and anything else they want.
The Book of Shadows is like a guide for them. Since Wicca does not have a bible or other spiritual work, and since Wicca is a personalized practice, the Book of Shadows can become their “bible.”
You can show them yours and explain what you keep in there and why. Give your children their own notebook or journal so that they can begin their Book of Shadows.
Spellcasting Basics
Once you give your kids a basic idea of what Wicca is and that you will teach them how to cast magic spells as part of your religion, you can start getting into the details of spellcasting. Obviously, you need to keep your instructions age-appropriate, but make sure to cover the general ideas with them regardless of age.
Teaching Method
The best way to teach your kids how to cast spells is to involve them in your spell casting. They can watch what you do, and you can explain the steps in the process and why you do them.
You may want to give them small chunks of information at first. Answer any questions they have. Maybe have them watch quietly and discuss the spell afterward.
Before you get into teaching them how to do a spell of their own, you should discuss energy, visualization, and mindset. These three concepts are central to spellcasting.
When discussing energy, start by explaining that they have the power within them. Help them to focus on their energy. It may help to let them make their own wand using items from nature, such as sticks and rocks. They can use it to practice controlling and directing their energy.
Whether you make a wand or not, you must explain that objects do not hold magic or energy. Explain that they may use objects to help them focus their energy, such as the wand or items used as part of a spell.
Discuss the importance of visualization and a positive mindset. Remind your children that they must believe in the spells they cast, and they need only to invite positive energy when casting a spell. They need to visualize in their mind what they expect to happen and focus on that outcome.
It is easy for kids to believe in the power of magic. They generally have no issues thinking that a spell will work. So, you do not have to get too much into talking about trusting in their own magic abilities.
Important Points
You will want to give your kids some guidelines for casting spells. Start by explaining that they need to avoid casting spells with an intent to harm someone else or control someone else’s free will.
In addition, explain that when they cast a spell, they need to make sure they have steady and calm emotions. If they are upset about something, it will influence the effects.
Explain that they should always keep spells concise and exact. Vagueness can make a spell turn out in unexpected ways.
Finally, help to understand that a magic spell is not a way to cause change or make something happen in an instant. Spells take time to work. They need to realize that it can take time for the magic to work and that many factors may influence how quickly the spell works and effective it is.
Create a Space
You probably already have an altar or other ritual space where you cast your spells. You can invite your children to do their work there or allow them to create their own areas. You can supply them with herbs and oils to use in their spells, along with other items, such as bowls and utensils.
Since spellcasting often involves using candles, you should supervise their spells or have them work without a candle. You can base their space and the rules you set on what is appropriate for their age.
You may also want to tailor explaining how to prepare the area for casting a spell. Traditionally, this means cleaning the space using sage or some other method, casting a circle with salt or chalk and drawing energy.
A Note About Magical Timing
Some people make sure to cast spells according to the moon phase. The moon is full of energy and can often help add power to a spell. If you use magical timing in your spell casting, then you should teach it to your children.
The moon phases can be a complicated subject, but the best way to explain it to a child is to keep it simple and direct. You can start by observing the moon and talking about the different phases it goes through.
Explain the impact that each moon phase can have on energy and spell casting. Here is a quick breakdown of each phase and what it represents and how you can use it for spellcasting:
- New moon: A fresh start, relating to goals, an end to something bad, a start of something new, to clear bad energy
- Waxing moon: Growth, to increase something in life, to brighten up
- Full moon: Full power, intensity, to charge energy, to enhance abilities, time to do any type of spell
- Waning moon: Decreasing, to banish, to end, to get rid of something, to remove negative energy
Choosing an Appropriate Spell
It will help your children, especially the younger ones, to learn the necessary steps in casting a spell. Start by explaining a spell can be as simple or complex as they want. They may need some supplies or nothing at all.
It is essential to explain that an easy spell is not an unpowerful spell. All spells have power if the person casting them injects it with their energy. The tools and items they use or the words they say are all part of the ritual. The real power comes from within them.
The most important thing is that they understand the first step in casting a spell is to draw up their energy and focus it on their intended goal. Once your children feel their energy is high, they can begin casting.
If they struggle with calling on their energy, you can have them use the magic wand you made before because this is an excellent way to help them focus and feel the energy flowing through their body to the wand.
You might want to talk with them about the spells they want to do. Give them some suggestions, and discuss why their ideas are good or why they may want to consider something else.
Keep it simple, easy, and natural. Help guide them to concepts and ideas with which they are familiar. Encourage them to think about something meaningful to them that they could cast a spell for.
Help them gather supplies they need. You may also want to discuss their choices and the meaning behind the items they feel they need for the spell. It makes for a good time to reiterate the importance of energy and how items are merely there to focus energy.
If your child can write, you can then encourage him or her to write out an incantation. Rhyming is not a requirement. Some kids may get frustrated if they can’t make it rhyme, so ensure them it is okay. If they can’t write, you can let them tell you what to write.
You want to write it down so that your child doesn’t forget what it is. It can also help you as you guide the child in casting the spell.
When they are ready, you can sit with them as they cast their spell and assist in any way they need. Remind them to end the spell by thanking the universe or your chosen deity and sending out good vibrations with a statement such as “blessed be” or “so mote it be.”
Afterward, encourage them to look for signs the spell worked. Have them be mindful of the impact of their spells.
Some Fun Magic Spells for Kids
The spells you cast as an adult are probably not the type of spells your children will want to cast. You may focus on adult subjects that are beyond your children’s knowledge.
Some of the best magic spells for kids are those that focus on everyday life and their daily interactions. They are simple and often about making life better for those around them, enjoying the many sides of nature and handling problems they may have.
Safety Note
Many of the spells require the use of candles or other items that need lit with a match or lighter. Due to this, you should be present for all spellcasting. Do not leave your child alone with a burning flame unless he or she is old enough to monitor it.
Also, many spells require moving an item over the smoke or flame of a candle or incense. Make sure your child does this safely to avoid getting a burn or knocking the candle over.
Make sure you discuss safety with your child before the start of every spellcasting session. You must ensure their safety at all times.
A Blessing for a Pet
If you have a pet, then your child is probably very close to it. He or she probably loves the animal very much and wants nothing more than for it to be safe and happy. A good first spell is a blessing for your pet.
It will be easy for your child to draw up the positive and loving energy needed for this type of spell. Here’s what you need for the spell:
- Candle or incense
- Something to represent the pet
You can use pretty much anything to represent the pet. If you have a dog, for example, use some of the hair it likely sheds all over your house.
Have your child write an incantation. It does not need to be long. A few lines about protecting the pet and blessing it will work.
When your child is ready to start, you can light the candle or incense. Have the child wave the item representing the pet through the smoke of the candle or incense while reciting the incantation.
Emotional Release Spell
Kids can often have trouble expressing their emotions or controlling them. This spell can help a child to release emotions in a healthy way.
All you need for this spell is bubbles. It does not require an incantation.
Have your child blow a bubble while focusing on the emotion he or she wishes to get rid of. As he or she blows the bubble, have him or her picture the feeling going into the bubble. When the bubble floats away, have your child imagine the emotion going away, or if it pops, have your child envision that the popping destroys the emotion.
Create a Magical Amulet
If your child struggles with harnessing his or her energy, an amulet can be a great tool to help him or her connect with it. It is also something that many children just enjoy wearing to remind them of their power.
You can buy some supplies and encourage your children to choose what they want to create their necklaces. You can often find jewelry making supplies easily in craft stores. You may also want to look in nature for items that would work.
You can put the necklace together, but you should encourage your child to bless it. You may want to start the blessing by lighting a white candle. You can also use herbs, oils, or incense to add to the ritual.
Holding the amulet in his or her dominant hand over the candle (high enough to avoid the flame and heat), have your child recite a simple incantation, such as:
“Bless this piece.
I ask of thee.
Charge it with my energy.
So mote it be.”
Have your child then put the amulet on and blow out the candle to end the ritual.
Find a Lost Toy
Have you ever had to deal with a breakdown because your child couldn’t find their favorite toy or blanket? This spell can help them to center their emotions and do something proactive about finding their toy.
When using this spell, it is also an excellent opportunity to remind your children that spells sometimes need help. Explain that this spell could help make the lost item easier to find when they are looking for it.
For this spell, you will need:
- A container
- A drawing of the lost item
Your child can use any type of container or box with a lid. Have your child put the drawing in the box and secure the cover on top. He or she can say a quick incantation over the box, such as:
“This item I lost –
Please let me find.
Blessed be.”
Have your child put the box in a safe space until he or she finds the lost item. At that time, he or she can release the drawing.
Banish Bad Dreams
Every child has bad dreams from time to time. You may find it is causing some trouble at bedtime. To help your child get rid of the nightmares, you can try this spell. You will need:
- String
- Drawing of the subject of the dream or something to represent it
- Jar with a lid
Have your child fold the drawing into a small square while focusing on not having the bad dream anymore. Have him or her begin wrapping the string around the folded drawing while saying:
“Banish this bad dream.
Bless me with good dreams.”
Have him or her repeat this while focusing on pushing the bad dream away until he or she wraps the whole string around the folded drawing. Your child can then place the banished dream in a jar and secure it shut with the lid.
Encouraging Magic in Your Children’s Lives
Helping your children to embrace the energy and power within them through casting spells is a great way to help them become comfortable with the Wiccan religion and learn the practices that you value. They will learn to love nature and the world around them while also embracing peace.
Magic spells for kids do not have to be complex to empower them. The simplest spells can be incredibly magical to a child, so encourage them to start spreading their magic today.