It hurts to find out that someone you love broke up with you because they had another love. You walked out on your partner after finding out about this infidelity, or they left you. There may be a way you can get this person back. Use a break-up spell to get your ex-partner to leave the other party and come back to you.
A spell can be performed by anyone. You don’t need to be psychic, mystical, or pagan. If your emotions are clear and you’re ardent about breaking up a couple, choose the spell that’s easiest for you to perform. You don’t need a lot of items to cast a spell. It’s best to have an altar, but a clean, quiet space in your home will do.
Always choose a private space where other household members or pets won’t disturb you when you’re performing the ritual. You want the items used in the ritual, including candles, to be in a space free from intruding pets or people. Some spells require candles and other objects to remain on an altar or sacred space for days or weeks.
Most items you’ll need for a break-up spell or love spell are already in your home. Fruits, eggs, and vegetables often get used. Some items, like animal hair, are relatively easy to procure if you have pets. Human hair from the spell recipients may require some hard work to procure, however.
What is a Spell?
A spell involves a chant and one or more items representing the desired outcome of the ritual. The items may include one or more candles, a piece of paper with the name of a person involved in the spell, spices, thread, rope, ribbons, coins, or food.
The chant or words spoken during the spell are used to bring a magical response for good or bad effect on a person or an object. In medieval times witches performed spells for a variety of reasons.
Many historical records of magic spells were destroyed as the major religions took over culture and regarded magic spells as evil and immoral.
History of Spells
In the binding spells used in ancient Rome and Greece, the spells bound people to desired outcomes in business, sports, love, and personal affairs. The Romans and Greeks wrote down spells and used amulets. People wore spell-casting amulets like an accessory until the spells came to pass.
In ancient times, effigy dolls were also used, similar to voodoo dolls popularized by the folklore of New Orleans and Haiti. Tiny dolls representing certain individuals were found in gravesites in Greece and Rome. The dolls had their feet or hands bound, and binding spells were also found in some of the graves.
Harmless Break Up Ritual
Here’s a spell that won’t hurt the couple in question or make them argue or fight. The spell will simply cause the couple to break up without rancor and stay apart forever. Your ritual will not have any bad repercussions on you or the other parties.
Clear your mind and light a black candle. Take a few deep breathes and star into the flame. Write the couple’s names on a piece of paper. Place a few drops of garlic oil on the paper, or rub fresh garlic on the paper. Add a teaspoon of salt and a teaspoon of cayenne pepper on the paper.
Hold the black candle in your right hand. Focus your energy and emotions on breaking up the couple. Drop wax onto the salt and pepper-laden paper. Continue to focus on breaking up the couple. When the wax finishes mixing with the salt and pepper, blow out the black candle.
Say the following – “So transfer my will/ and hear my spell /so mote it be. Crunch up the paper and then burn it and let the wind carry the ashes away, or bury it outdoors. Light the black candle on the Full Moon and let the candle burn out to finish the spell.
Basic Break Up Spell
Wake up at midnight and go to a quiet room when no one disturbs you. Use a dark-colored yarn at least 12 inches long and a candle. Tie nine knots one inch apart in the yarn. Tie each knot with a feeling of resolve that the relationship will end. Put all your energy into each knot. Visualize the parties fighting and arguing and running away from each other.
Make sure the universe understands how adamant you are about the couple leaving each other. Then say, “Take this couple that I see/make their lives unhappy be/Knots of anger/Knots of hate/ Let the spell make sure I’ve won/Their love is now undone.”
Place the yarn in your drawer. When you open your drawer to get something and see the yarn, visualize the couple leaving each other. The longer you visualize, the stronger the spell will be. If you want your ex-partner’s new wife to leave him, visualize it distinctly in your mind.
Anti-Love Triangle
If a boyfriend or husband invites a potential homewrecker to social events, or if one of your friends displays flirtatious behavior toward your mate, use an anti-love triangle spell. Get three gingerbread cookies in the shape of people. One cookie represents you, one represents your partner, and the third cookie is the interloper.
The day after the Full Moon put the gingerbread people representing you and your partner next to each other and the third cookie to the side. Put honey, rose petals, or vanilla between your cookie and your partner’s cookie.
Put horse radishes, pins, needles, or ashes between your partner’s cookie and the third person’s cookie. Every day until the new moon, move your cookie and your partner’s cookie closer together. Keep moving the third cookie farther away from the other cookies.
Add more positive materials by your cookie and your partner’s cookie, and more negative material between your partner’s gingerbread person and the interloper’s cookie. The spell will be complete by the new moon. Your relationship will be stronger, and the third person will be out of the picture.
White Magic Break Up Ritual
Gather three drops of clove oil, three blue candles, blue ink, one envelope, jasmine oil, three pieces of paper, and a fireproof bowl. Cast a circle and put jasmine oil on the candles. Light candles and place your desired’s name and your name on a piece of paper. Focus your thoughts and emotions on your loved one.
Write the name of the third-party on the second piece of paper. On the third piece of paper, write three positive wishes for your competition in blue ink. Make a wish that they will fall in love with someone else, not your loved one, and similar wishes.
The white magic spell will make the object pull away from the third party in a positive way so that they will be so happy with another that they’ll forget about your desired one. This spell ensures that you don’t attract any negative vibrations to you from concocting a dark, or black magic spell. Harmful spells may come back to hurt you more than the recipient of the spell.
Put a drop of clove oil on each piece of paper. Fold the papers. Place the papers in the envelope. Place the envelope under your pillow for seven nights, and burn the envelope in a fireproof bowl on the eight-night. Spread the ashes outdoors in nature.
Lemon Break Up Ritual
This old break up spell uses vinegar, lemons, and paper. Write the names of the people you want to break up on a piece of paper. Cut the paper, so the names are on a separate piece. Put vinegar on each piece of paper. Now cut a lemon in half. With the pieces of paper and names facing each other, put them together with black pepper and black dog and black cat hair.
Place the paper between the lemon halves. This lemon is a way of souring the relationship. The dog and cat hair should make the couple fight like cats and dogs. Seal the spell by putting the halves in place with black wax. Tie them with black thread if you don’t have black wax.
You may also stick black pins in the lemon, chant break up predictions, and then bury the lemon in the couple’s backyard or in a potted plant.
Rope Break Up Ritual
Perform the rope break up spell at midnight. Use a foot-long piece of black string or yarn. Tie nine knots in the rope. Imagine the couple breaking up as you tie each knot. Recite this mantra as you tie each knot: Take this couple’s love/Tear it apart with a knot of hate/Soon to break up is their fate.”
Put the rope in your house in a place where you will see it. When you see it, it will remind you of the break-up spell and give it new energy. Once the couple breaks up, you can throw out the rope. Don’t untie the knots, or the spell will be reversed.
Plant Break Up Ritual
Use a photo of both parties. Put leaves of lemon verbena between the pictures to imitate a sour mood. Now place the photos and leaves in a bag or wrap them with a dark cloth. Bury the bag or fabric under the doorstep where both parties walk. The spell is activated as they walk over the bag or cloth.
Bottle Spell
A bottle spell involves collecting nine nails, nine needles, and nine pins. Take a large bottle and hairs from the two people you wish to pull apart. Take two pieces of any paper. Write the name of one person on one piece of paper nine times, and the other person’s name on the second piece of paper nine times.
Wrap the paper with the person’s name with their hair. Do the same for the second piece of paper. Ensure that the hair is inside the paper. Put the paper inside the bottle, along with the pins, nails, and needles. Now fill the bottle with vinegar. Seal the bottle and place it under the couple’s doorstep or in a location where it’s hidden, but in their residence.
The spell will work better if you bury the bottle under their doorstep. If the couple steps over the buried bottle, they’ll activate it.
Egg Spell
This effective spell is more hardcore than most spells. Get an egg from a black hen. Boil the egg in your own pee. Use an old pot, and throw out the pot after you use it. (Yes, you read that correctly. This is an ancient spell that has been used for centuries.)
Cut the egg in half while wearing gloves. Feed one half of the egg to a black dog. Chant “As dogs hate cats, so will the (name of the man in question) will hate the (name of the woman in question.) ”
Feed the second half of the egg to a black cat and say, “As cats hate dogs, the (woman’s name) will hate (man’s name.)”
Ice Spell
Gather the following items:
- Photos of the couple
- A black candle
- Tupperware filled with water
Place the items on your altar. Sit for a few minutes and think about how badly you want the couple to part. Visualize the negative energy transferring to the water. Fold the photos and put them in the water.
Say, “With this spell, you will argue and fight/I implore you to break up with all my might.” Put the lid on the Tupperware. Store the bowl in the back of your freezer to put the relationship on ice.
Onion Ritual #2
Perform this ritual on a falling moon, and preferably on a Tuesday. Use the following ingredients:
- A red onion
- Seven toothpicks
- Black pen
- Clean white paper
This estrangement spell will cut off your love rival. Cut the onion into two equal parts. Then cut the paper into two strips. Write down the name of your love on one strip and the name of the other person using the black pen on the other strip. Place each strip on half of the onion and put the halves together.
Use the toothpicks to hold the onion together. Chant “Fight, argue, be angry at each other” or any other DIY chant. Bury this onion outdoors, far from your home. AS the onion rots underground, so will the relationship of your love and the other party.
Why Won’t a Spell Work?
There are a few reasons why a spell won’t work. You may have done the spell incorrectly or skipped a step. If the person casting the spell had bad intentions that would harm a person instead of merely causing bad luck, it may not work.
Many see magic as a way to make things happen without working for them. Magic should get used with hard work and an attitude that draws your goal to you. Put in work at a daily level to reap benefits from a spell. Imagine you are fishing. Once you catch a fish, you still have to reel it in, or else it will get away from you. Choose the right spell, have the right attitude, and do some work to achieve your goal after you’ve cast the spell.
Altars and Spells
It’s always better to perform a spell on an altar, but it’s not necessary. The altar is the central point of your energy, and an attractive place to use candles and other items. Use a cloth of your choosing, any color or design you like, and place it over a table or desk. Additional objects may be kept on the altar at all times to represent elements.
- Facing East – Feather, sword, pen or magnifying glass
- Facing West – Bowl, goblet, seashells, salt or mirror
- Facing North – Crystal, stone plant or small tree
- Facing South – Orange flowers, matches or orange or red crystal
Put items called for in a particular spell on your altar as you cast the spell. The items can remain on the altar until the spell is completed unless the spell indicates the items must be placed elsewhere.
Some spells last from three days to several cycles of the moon. The ritual will be communicated as long as the designated items are left on your altar. Even if you don’t chant over the altar, the spell will continue to be carried out as long as the items lie on your altar. When you take things off the altar, you release your spell to nature, either water, fire, or the earth.
Creating Your Altar
An altar is part decoration, part ceremonial space, and part autobiography; Family photos are used as shrines in some homes. You may have altars around your home for different reasons. Use jewelry, clothes, papers, or photos as parts of an atar when you travel or move to a new place. An altar creates beauty and a sense of comfort.
Place natural items on your altar. These items may include fruit, shells, flowers, candles, herbs, crystals, and feathers. An altar should give you comfort all day long, even when you’re not casting a spell.
When you are straightforward, casting your spell and chanting, you’ll make yourself more receptive to a positive outcome for your spells. An explicit invocation that’s precise and heartfelt will work better than a chant that’s recited without emotion. Whether you want money, love, or something else, you’ll create a scenario where the universe will help you get what you want.
Break Up Spells and Chants
A spell puts the recipient and caster in close contact. The recipient is subject to whatever result you indicated in the ritual. It takes days or weeks for the spell to manifest. Spells aren’t instantaneous, regardless of how intense your emotions may be.
Spells were closely related to singing in ancient times. Music and words combine to enchant and audience and bring forth emotions. A spell works in much the same way to reach the object of your ritual and alter behavior.
Spells have an effect on the recipient and on the person performing the ritual. Even if the spell gets performed in a language unknown to the recipient, the ritual will work if it gets cast correctly.
You can use informal raps and chants that don’t have a rhyming pattern, as long as your intention is strong and pure.
Final Word on Break Up Spells
Separating two people through spells requires vigilance and follow-up after the initial ritual. You should also be aware that harmless spells that simply drive people apart without hurting them in any way are more likely to succeed. A spell that’s beneficial to all parties is better karmically than a hurtful one to the person casting the spell.
A spell won’t work, no matter how much you want it to, if it is against the will of the universe. If the universe wants a couple to stay together, there’s nothing that you can do to break up their relationship. You can put a spell on someone to make them notice you, in this instance, but a break-up spell won’t work.
You may be able to conjure, or will, your intended party to have an affair with you, but you will not break up the couple. You can distance your crush from his or her betrothed. You may be able to get your love interest to go on business trips more often, and get him away from his partner regularly. However, no ritual can break up soulmates.
Use visualization to picture the result you desire. This method works for breaking-up couples and just about anything else. Imagine that the rival with your loved one is drifting away and becoming less interested in your loved one. The distance grows until the rival no longer cares for your crush. Now you can make your move to attract your loved one’s attention or win him back.